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My wife has had a single mastectomy, although we have enjoyed swinging in the past she dosnt want to upset anyone or be laughed at. What are your thoughtsimg src="imagesadultemoticons028.gif"

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Personally, I think you really would not want to know or get close to anyone who "laughed" at that, would you? It would say a lot more about them, than you or your wife. I would think most sensible people realise that this can happen to anyone, and it would be very shallow indeed to take a negative view of it. My partner of some years ago died from cancer. I'd be very, very happy to have her around still and a mastectomy would be be absolutely nothing in that context. If your wife does feel awkward about it, I would just be very open about the issue. It actually might save someone's life. It also shows that you can live with this, or any other similar problem, so sets a very good example, in my opinion. Well done for raising such a very important issue that affects many.

Steve

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She's a brave lady and if anyone thinks its funny or decide to ridicule her then they don't deserve her, show them the door - forcefully.

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She is a brave lady and anyone who ridicules her or thinks its funny doesn't deserve to be in her company, show them the door - forcefully.

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When I met my ex-girlfriend, she had had a masectomy. I stayed 5 years with her (and she was 16 years older). She had a back muscle put in, but no nipple. Not a problem at all, i still had the other boob to play with ;-) Just mention it, so it's not a surprise. I'm sure lots of people are cool about it.

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Hi, I just wanted to say from one female to another, You go girl! I admire you as I dont think I could go ahead and do that if I was in your position. No decent caring male would ever laugh or make fun of you. If they are are uncomfortable with the situation, then that is their problem NOT YOURS!! There are plenty of men out there who would worship you for who you are and not for what you have or have not got. They would also admire you for what you have been through. So hold your head up high and be proud that you have been through a tough time and have survived. Just remember men outnumber us women, so you can be choosy on who you have fun with!! I wish you all the best and have a swinging time, concentrate on yourself and dont waste time worrying about others.

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go fot it. anyone who mocks are not real and therefore are not worth it. wouldn't bother me at all. they have the problem not you. img src="imagesadultemoticons001.gif"

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Would like to thank you all for your replies, they really surprised me, although my husband loves me to bits and of course agrees with you all - he's biased. It was so uplifting to read your thoughts I really cannot thank you enough you dont know how much it has helped me!!!!img src="imagesadultemoticons005.gif"

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