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This is my second go around here and once more it seems that the same old scripted messages show up, I respond and hear nothing back. Is this for real or just a way to make you keep coming back and hoping you will actually meet someone for real? So far it has been very disappointing. 

I am asking the same thing, seems like just bots and scammers ??

How can we make contact?

I’ll chat with you x

I have to agree about the bulk of the content. I've "met" scammers who pretend to be from my town. And (I think) there are two many low-watt entries where someone posts a dick-pick and say's "I'm ready". I think part of the problem is that Senior Crossdressers has few filters beyond sex-oriented ones. Like education, hobbies, (non sex) turn ons, religious beliefs, etc. So it is hard to screen out really questionable post-ers. I only figured out that one poser wasn't my type as he had, in the background of pictures, a confederate flag. I wish this website and effort did a more sophisticated job at screening and characterizing people. Just because we like alternative sexual hobbies doesn't mean that we don't have all the other sides that are well-screened by major dating websites. Seems they treat us like sleasy people, with mainly just sexual preference filters.

Why doesn’t admin address these issues? Are they part of a bigger scam?

I just got a “you’ve broken forum rules” emails. You tell us to tell you of suspected fake members. But your contact form is to be used for ‘Technical Issues’. I don’t want to be a member on this site which seems to be full of fake members, scammers and bots. The most sincere members are in the forum complaining about the same things I’m complaining about. You take our money, and try to shut us up from complaining about your site. I just want a refund so I can get off this site. I paid for a month, and was nearly scammed on the first day! Set out your complaints process in detail! Or I will just complain on the web, and the thousands of followers who tune into my sex education show!

Thanks for the messages above.....very informative ??

Scammers with multiple profiles- here are two

I have found two women approximately 50 years old that have multiple profiles and are running scams. Be careful of Mirabel Hillary. She has many profiles Hillmirab042, rabel2, mirabelh are just a few. She will lead you in and then just before meeting will come up with some BS excuse for you to spend money on toys or something else or a loan. I’m sure she has other reasons. Watch out!! She didn’t take me but if she has many profiles it must be working.

Another person is a woman a bit overweight also around 50 with a grey streak in her hair on HER left side. She is a real piece of work. One of her profiles is deana70. She does the same type of scam.

There are MANY women running similar scams so be careful. If anyone gets you excited then just before meeting asks for money for things like, toys, bdsm equipment, fetish hotel fees, dungeon costs, loans anything at the last minute it’s a scam and you can kiss your money goodbye.

Be careful out there!

All bots scam website. 

ANY ONE FOR ONTARIO

scumbag gold diggers 
btw contact me

Bots bots

What to do

Avoiding scammers

I won't chat with anyone who has a bare-bones profile, especially no pictures. Also (and this is just my personal preferences), get turned off by someone who is mainly motivated by sex. There are a lot of the two types on this site. Also, as I am an older dresser, I avoid any of the women who are half my age... they seem to be, to a large extent, scammers who want to take advantage of guys with HUGE fantasies of wanting to date someone their daughter's age. Ick.

If this site wants to improve it should do 30days free then have people join at Discount rate afterwards.  So many fake profiles it’s real turn off. 

So im fairly new here and at first i was blown away by all of the attention and messages that we were getting because of being a couple and looking for "our"third for quite a while but as soon as i rejected the idea of giving them our cell numbers i either got ghosted or blocked... this is getting frustrating. Why cant humans be honest and legit?? ???? we work hard for what we have ....

Lots of fakes, lots of scammer chicks. Steam cards anyone? Ever get a request for a hookup with a demand for a 'deposit' up front and then a no show, or better still the address does not exist? I got a nibble who insisted her address was accurate, but it point to a retirement apartment complex for Russian jews. Lots of bullshit here and on the sister site. 

How can we make contact?

Same thing. Emails seem auto generated. People put me on their hot list from other countries. Nothing makes sense.

Yes i agree completely, you get a lot of messages if your vip profile gonna be to end hmm funny somebody want sex contact me im from Georgia and im homosexual