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From the time I've been  on here it seems a lot of members aren't paid up. So although they can like my profile and that sends me a site generic message I cant chat with them. Any messages I send them they cannot read as not VIPS.  It would provide way better value to the paid members  who are VIPS if out messages to those who arent could at least be read by them. Then if we wanted too we could send our cellphn nos to anybody who is hot that we'd like to meet. Their decision then whether or not to txt us. Currently altho Im getting hit on maybe 3 times a day, I can only communicate with maybe 1 of those a week who is also a VIP. Means a lot of opportunites are being missed only because non paid members cannot read my messages I send them as a VIP. What do you reckon site owners give the VIPs who are paying and supporting you more value for their money ?