Women asking for hookup i d, verification etc.

i have noticed that too ,all want id ,or want u to go to other sites etc ,no hook ups or meets 

It's either dominatix, findom or looking for a S***r d****y. 

*dominatrix (typo)

Dominatrix (I spelt it wrong the first time)

anyone who asks for bank details or similar is a crook it like all those african emails and most likely the same people

Don't go to the site It's 100% fake. It's a scam. There are reports all over the internet stating these sites are a scam. Most of the time, it's not even a real woman sending you, just a scammer. 
Here's what I said to one "woman" after I investigated the site she wanted to send me to:


Firstly: The website was created and registered only 9 months ago. So for the document you claim as proof that it is not a scam shows itself to be copyright 2016, is obviously fake. The URL did not exist before 9 months ago.
 
Secondly: The OPP and local police forces do not do background checks for free. There is a fee involved. And there is a specific form that must be filled out by the person requesting a background check. I know this because I have worked in areas that require background checks and know the procedure.
 
Thirdly: It takes a minimum of two weeks for the results of a background check to come in. There is no instant online background check, so by claiming to "keep out offenders and people with felonies" they are again lying. This cannot be done online, nor can it be done instantly.
 
Fourthly: Simply entering your credit card information does not guarantee someone's age. I am a credit card authorized merchant, and I do not receive age information about someone who has used a credit card with me. That information is protected under Canadian privacy laws.
 
Fifthly: Criminals, including r*pists, can easily acquire stolen credit card numbers online, so a CC is no guarantee that the person using it is who they claim to be.
 
Finally: The OPP says they do not have a relationship with this site and have no mechanism set up for a website to report a missing person.
 After I wrote that, the 'woman' stopped contacting me.

Thanks for the advice. I'll do what I can to make my profile my more appealing. Granted, it's my first time using a dating site (it's the first one I've ever used) so it's probably gonna take some trial and error. But I'll keep trying.
And I'll make sure to steer clear of the fakes too. 

Ignore my previous 2 messages. They were meant to be on a different thread. 

Had the same thing happen,she wanted to meet and wanted spiv,,,bullshit

Genuine women want to know if you are who for assurance -  so they can let somebody know where they are going and who with. I would do that on a 'normal' date for safety reasons. Certainly wouldn't want financial details though.

There's a long detailed comment posted above. It explains why using a cc for verification is unreliable.
When I arrange to meet a woman I've just met online, I only agree to meet in a busy part of town in broad daylight. I won't ask anyone to meet me in some sleazy bar late at night. She can bring a friend to accompany her if she doesn't feel safe meeting me alone. This is the best I can do to assure the other person that I'm real.