Single guys only, please read this!

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An ongoing topic.
As they say this story will run and run.
Please see my comments on,
"Whats happened to peoples manners"
also on,
"Do single guys meet couples"
The problem is with single females too.
There is a girl I would love to meet.
She is on line right now .
There are 2 unread messages in my outbox ? IS GOING ON.
I have got an address for her twice.
Is this an auto message.
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Re: Single guys only, please read this!

Just a note to add:-
We have chatted with 5 other couples, spanish and english of varying ages who have all had similar results. Chatting with guys by phone or internet, eventually making arrangements to meet them and then some of the guys don`t turn up. We are all in agreement on this one that a lot of guys seem not to expect to get sex with couples, but play the game anyway as sort of a fantasy challenge thing, then chicken out at the final hurdle.
This is nothing that cannot be understood and apart from the annoyance it causes us and the other couples, is just another part of lifes rich tapestry.

Happy swinging, Jose & Gloria

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Further to my comments yesterday.
I have done some invistagating.
On the main c 4 page it says we are linked to 10 sites.
If you turn off the link box on search toy get quite different results.
Here are mine.
Females in cleveland 3 pages on all , 1 page on off.
Females in NE 12 PAGES ON ALL, 4 PAGES on off.
Are the Females getting better results on other sites.
I have asked C 4 admin to clarify the wording of what people are looking
for in the profiles.
"Wish to meet M and F And Couples"
DO THEY MEEN M and F together or seperately.
So far no reply.
Will keep you posted.

Re: Single guys only, please read this!

Jargon, no doubt there are time wasters amongst single males and let's not forget single females too but it's my bet that many more couples have had much more successes arranging meetings with single males than single males have had meeting couples!

I can't understand why you think using the forum to voice one's opinion is "Whinging"?

Dear TOO1,

Of course you are correct, but you must believe that couples and single females have the edge and of course have more success. The simple fact that single males are in the majority makes this possible.

As far as the use of the word "whinging" is concerned, please read again what was written and note the context in which it was used.

Jose & Gloria

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Not sure how you work that one out about couples having more success meeting single guys? For every couple who meet a single guy, there must have been a single guy involved DUH?

If, for example, there were 10 couples and 100 single guys you could have each couple meeting a single guy, with a success rate of 100% but the single guys success rate would be only 10%, much less successful.

Of course if one of the single guys meet many couple it brings his own success up but the overall success of single guys down (as less single guys meet couples) and if a couple meets more than one single guys it brings the average success of single guys up (unless all the single guys they meet already met couples before).

Does that enlighten you?

Sri

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Srilumpa mon ami,

As a couple we have met and had sex with 14 different single guys in the last 15 months, so what does that does for your arithmetic? Most couples who are into single guys meet more than one we believe, so it`s a bit harder to work out. The fact of life is that there are so many more single guys who are looking is natural and to be expected.
Lucky us! Jose & Gloria

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Oops,

I'm not even able to move the quote tags around :(. Luckily there is an edit button.

While I am at it may I make 1 or 2 suggestions to separate the wheat from the chaff, starting with the low tech idea first.

1. Try to favorise people who make the effort to write properly rather than writing as they speak. I know that a lot of people think that grammar and spelling are dead on the net (treating it as a written oral medium) but if somebody can't be bothered to spend a little bit of time polishing his writing then is heshe going to bother showin up? Of course it wouldn't do to go to the other extreme and become a grammar nazi.

2. A bit more hi-tech as it would be better implemented by the website, a ranking system where you can rank a person after a meet on whether they showed up or not and whether the meet was a good experience or not. Such a ranking system should only be open for premium members as you don't want people to start fake accounts to rank fake meets between themselves and these imaginary friends.

However even without the backend on the site it should be possible to start a thread in one of the forums where you can say who you met with (or failed to) and how it went (no need for details but saying you got along well or didn't and why ("he was unpleasant" or "nothing especially wrong with him, we just didn't get along all that well" would be a start)).

Any thoughts?

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Dear srilumpa,

All a bit too hi tech for us, action is what everyone is looking for?
This to you from two people who failed their 11 plus exams, one also with dyslexia. But yes we agree that grammar should not be left out in the cold. Go to the Kinky Kiwi website to find a man who believes that bad grammar and bad spelling are part of his charm, or so he tells me his fans have told him!!
I find this forum a bit of relaxation at times, but also sometimes very boring and math does nothing to help in that direction. Nothing personal!! Your other ideas for solutions to this website`s problems go much to deep for the site owners, we believe, so best left to wend it`s own merry way with nobody at the helm.
You can adjust your data to 15 happier guys now if you wish.

Regards, Jose & Gloria

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I agree with Wolfcande - good manners cost nothing. If somebody contacts you, it is only polite to send a reply (even a thanks, but no thanks) within a short time of having read the contact.

I'd say this applies to any sort of contact, but is even more important if you have arranged a meeting. If you can't get to the meeting, you should make contact to say so - the earlier the better, I'd have thought.