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32 Year Old Single Female and New To All This

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Hi!

I'm based in Dorset and am pretty new to all this. There are a few things that I would like to try but I am not sure about a good way to keep safe.

I've always fancied trying a threesome with two guys (mixed couples an option I might consder) or just hooking up with someone for no strings fun, but the only thing that is stopping me is how to keep safe.

Can anyone give me any tips or just chat to me about it?

Re: 32 Year Old Single Female and New To All This

hi ibeen on here for a while and im still nervi about meeting people i have a few times now and i still find it dawnting best way is to chat on here for a while then if you do arange to meet do it in a neuatral place that you no and chosse that way it on your terms and dont feel threated (well thats what i do when i meet a female for the first time i make it there dis where we meet so they feel comftable) thats about all i cn think off at mo xx karl

Re: 32 Year Old Single Female and New To All This

Im sure you have had lots of emails from guys already. Its probably best to get chatting the women on here, kost of which are pretty sussed. There are lots of timewasters on here and guys pretending to be couples, so watch that.

Good Luck.

Re: 32 Year Old Single Female and New To All This

best way to stay safe, is really get to know the person 1st b4 u meet.

Re: 32 Year Old Single Female and New To All This

The very best way is to correspond on here first and swap IM details. Then chat online or whatever until you decide yeah or nay! If you decide yeah, then swap phone details and chat on a PAYG mobile phone and set up a meeting - but keep talking online and on the phone because you can still back out before you meet. When you meet, then you should really declare your real name because you've come this far. Then you can have fun in the knowledge that you're keeping it real!

Re: 32 Year Old Single Female and New To All This

hi newbie here from weymout

Re: 32 Year Old Single Female and New To All This

Hi Newbi, most of what you have been told by others here is very true.
You can assume a good judge of character by the content of their messages, it soon becomes apparent what they are really like, naturally guys here will expand on the truth somewhat so be very careful as they are after one thing and one thing only, afterall that is what this site is about. If you intend to have a sexual relationship then you must ensure you are well protected and for me it is extremely important to take shower or bath before and after. Good luck with you search to fulfil your fantasy and most of all take good care. Best wishes. CALSHOT xx img src="imagesadultemoticons030.gif"

Re: 32 Year Old Single Female and New To All This

Hi single, we are first timers and really scared of what might happen, we are looking for a single like yourself but need to learn alot first, so perhaps we could talk via e-mail and help each other in the process. Most of all please be safe. b.f.n. x

Re: 32 Year Old Single Female and New To All This

hi im new as well im 44 from portland nice to meet you all

Re: 32 Year Old Single Female and New To All This

keep safe from who hon?josexxx

Re: 32 Year Old Single Female and New To All This

if you can see them on webcam, generally you get an idea that they're who they claim to be. (Note to self, buy a webcam!)

Also, meet in a public place, and let a friend know where you are going. It might seem weird on the first time to be texting a friend to keep updating, but it assures them you're safe.

They'd probably be my tips.

Re: 32 Year Old Single Female and New To All This

cheers