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I am a single female and although I am totally intruiged by all this and definitely want to try a few things, I would like to know how to do it safely.

I don't have a partner but I do fancy giving a threesome a go (preferably with 2 guys, but a mixed couple is an option I might be prepared to consider).

I have also thought about just meeting up with guys for no strings fun as well. The only thing that is really stopping me is wondering how to keep safe.

Could anyone please give me some tips?

Re: New To This and Would Like Some Tips

Yes
- use your gut instinct - its usually right.
- Get to know people - chat by email
- tell a good friend what you are doing if poss
- always plan to phone that friend during the first meeting.
- meet on neutral territory, somewhere you know.
- don't believe a word you are told - until you get to trust someone, things are rarely as they seem
- finally be careful - but have fun
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Re: New To This and Would Like Some Tips

My wife and I got involved in it several years ago. She was very nervous at first but we got some good advice and things worked out great. We started slow with just an ex-boyfriend of hers from high school who she had never been with. When we proposed it to him he was shocked at first then went along. The evening went well and we moved on to other things as well. Go slow and be sure of the situation you are in. Always maintain control of the evening, you are the boss of yourself. I would be happy to chat with you about it at any time and share some of our experiences to help you along. Feel free to IM me or e-mail and will be happy to help you out. Good luck and like I said maintain control. See ya soon....

Re: New To This and Would Like Some Tips

Hi, very good advice from the guy that replied to you, follow all those and you should be fine. I am a single fem that meets and it works, also ask for a cam viewing beforehand takes out people that are not suitable ect for you, have fun!

relax

just be careful

Re: New To This and Would Like Some Tips

Agreeing with the last person, always try and get a cam viewing... photos can be decieving :)

Re: New To This and Would Like Some Tips

hi! I think the best way to stay safe is to meet someone who hasnt been "round the block",someone who has been in a monoganous relationship for 20 years and only now looking to try things and experiment,someone who is good looking and a nice guy,and new on here....someone like ME! Please get in touch,if nothing else we could maybe "partner" eachother on our quest for new experiences? take care for now x

Re: New To This and Would Like Some Tips

Hi,

similar position to yours and with similar concerns. As suggested above, invest in a good webcam and have a go on several occasions. If you are looking for a cpl or more than that, then make sure you see the people TOGETHER on cam. Gut instinct is OK but best to be sure. Then use e-mail to discuss what you want and like and what they want and like before telephoning. IF you are going to meet up then best do it somewhere public (a caferesteraunt is always good) and as mentioned. tell someone you can trust where you are going and get them to telephone you - this also works as a getout in case you don't like the people! Be as honest as you can - my own advice is not to give out too many personal details until you REALLY know the personpeople well ... and even then, be wary, especially as a single girl.
Above all be safe!
x
Rosy

Re: New To This and Would Like Some Tips

Hi Ladym. Amon business in London for the weekend would you like to meet up. You sound like you are in for abit of fun andsoam I