What a wonderful world????

I'm a 66 yr old married bisexual guy (married to a woman) that lived in the big city of Chicago.  I started my first experience with other guys when I was in my late 30's, early 40's.  Although I enjoyed looking I never had the nerve to hook up with another guy.  Since my initial experiences I have enjoyed playing with other guys when I can.  I am now retired, moved away from the big city to the country, very rural, and find it hard to find others to play with.
I've tried many of the sites but, like tonight, get disgusted when people don't show or call off a meet. or delay it to the point where I can't find an excuse to stay away from the house.  Have you had those types of issues?  How do you manage them?  I would like to find a regular friend but it is very difficult.
Thanks for your input.