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Single guys - the biggest timewasters of the lot!!!

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We have just been let down yet again by a single guy. What is it with you guys? An evening of rampant sex laid out on a plate for you, and you can't even be bothered to turn up, or even just let us know you can't make it. This guy had our mobile number and email address, so a call, text or mail would have been easy. This is not the first time this has happened by any means. Come on guys, be serious about getting together, or don't waste our time making arrangements that you are not going to keep.

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well as a single guy i can also say that i've been in contact with couples who have also been a big waste of time and i'd love to meet up with a genuine couple who went through with their promises. dont group everyone in the same category just cos you've met a couple of singles who were wasting your time. it happens to us all.

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Single guys do get a rough ride in this lifestyle, but not all of us are fantasists liking the thought of swinging but when reality kicks in 'bottle it'. For every 100 single guys you will get the odd one who clouds peoples opinions of us, but is this not the same with the couples scene? I seem to remember when I was one half of a couple being let down on more than one occasion.

Maybe the issue is that we hide behind cyberspace too much- chatting first is probably the best option....... if they have no experience and seem flaky on the phone they probably are.

Keep searching for us real single guys, we love it when you want to meet up and we really do turn up.

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dont group everyone in the same category just cos you've met a couple of singles who were wasting your time.


If it were just a couple of singles that wasted our time it would not be so bad, but in recent weeks we have made arrangements with 5 different single guys all of whom have let us down in varying degrees, from cancelling at the last minute (at least they bothered to let us know) through to those who just haven't turned up. And this is far from a new experience. We have been into the scene for more than 6 years, and more single guys have let us down than turned up. Are we just unlucky? In all that time we have never had a couple not turn up. At least they have the decency to let us know if they can't make it. Having said all that, we will persevere with single guys as we both enjoy that scenario - let's just hope in future we find some reliable ones!!

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well i have had a lot of meets and i have been let down by cpl 4 times so far and when you travel from manchester to wetherby in yorkshire get there and then ring them to say you are there what the number of the room to be text back sorry cant make it tonight maybe another time ??? well its not on

but it happens and i have had good meets and regular meets now with cpls its a matter of weeding out the time wasters

sorry to hear about your timewasters wish i was in spain

bazzer69uk

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Oh how cruel!!!.I am on the "books" as a single bi-curious man and since being on the site I have sent 93 (yes 93)emails I have received 61 "thanks but no thanks" 3 possibles and 4 downright abusives(yes its you bi-guy in durham).Okay I accept that I,m not exactly Bruce Willis but given the chance(given half a chance!)not only will I turn up but I will do everything I can that the couple I am visiting at least have a smile on their face when I leave.Just one more thing,although as I said I am running as a single guy,I am in fact married and the reason that I run as a single guy is that my wife is disabled and does not swing.There now...is that up front or what?.May the bird of paradise fly up y,nightie!.Love and peace.Oralnmore.

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Over the many years we have been swinging, we have met dozens of guys and 95% of them have been unable to perform or just bottled out and left.

Many others didn't turn up, cancelled at the last minute or appeared to be playing games for their own amusement.

At one point we decided it must be our fault, but then along comes another rare male to prove that is not the case.

We sometimes think that too many guys watch porn and think it must be easy, but apparently it isn't.

It's the same at swinger clubs, many of the guys go there to play, but when they get an offer, most of them either can't manage to get an erection, or make an excuse.

We would understand if there was something physically wrong with us, but there isn't, it all appears to be a psychological problem that many guys don't seem to understand they suffer from.

We have asked a few, but they either find it impossible to describe, or they just don't have an answer.

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Hey Im Just the type of guy your looking for. I am definatly interested. And i wont go wasting your time. Mesage me you Mobile and ill get Back to you on when we can hook up.

CJ

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hi i would have to say as a single guy that we're not all timewasters. i have had 2 meets now and although i was apprehensive at first all things turned out great.i think you should try chatting on cam then you can kinda know what they're going to be like.the hardest thing i've found is getting people to respond to my initial contact but hey ho i'll keep trying.
sorry for your dissappointments but we're not all bad and some of us love it .

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Reliable guy here will never let you down just call

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I am a horny good looking athletic guy who is always willing to meat up for relaxed fun with couples or single females or parties,dogging etc. I just cant get enough of it but have been let down and turned down a few times myself. I think this problem is enevitable and you just gotta persist as there are a few of us single guys who are genuine. Any midlands area meets or parties just drop me a mail. You wont regret it. My good friend is also available and a very large lad down below so any ladies fancy a spitroaste just mail me and i`l bring the gravy lol...img src="imagesadultemoticons014.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons030.gif" img src="imagesadultemoticons003.gif"

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We totally agree with Jargon - you could almost be describing our situation instead of yours. Thanks to all the guys who have contacted since our first post - maybe they will prove us wrong and show there are plenty of genuine guys out there? Anybody who is planning a trip to the Costa del Sol - males, females, couples, groups, even golf parties!! - drop us a line.

Jane & Kev XXX

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well this guy is genuine if you'd like to contact have fun meantime