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My wife And I are new to this site,but not the life and I would like to know how ppl here feel about thoes who try to play with out their spouse?
My wife is in the army and is deployed at this and won't be home for some time,yet I would still like to meet ppl both men and women, cpl or single. And I 'm wondering how most ppl feel about this.
My wife and both feel its better to play in the lifestyle then out Beacuse at least here we are all suppose to know its not for love its for sex and frienfship. Right?
tjc4x4

Re: playing with out spouse

I can only go off my own limited experience on here so far, and my few years experience in clubs, but for what its worth.....

I'm married and, unlike you, swinging without my wife's knowledge which has attracted some adverse comments from people; so its fair to say that there are some people on here who object to married men swinging without their wife's knowledge. If your wife is fully aware you are swinging without her whilst she is away and consents to that I don't think you'll have any problems, though some people quite openly state in their ads that they don't meet married men.

In clubs it doesn't really come up. I quite openly wear a wedding ring at swinger's clubs and have never been asked about it or refused by ladies or couples because of it. Maybe I've been lucky, or maybe club goers have a more relaxed attitude.

Re: playing with out spouse

thanks for yor re.and yes wife does know,we would normaly play together but she happens to be in Iraq right now and will be there untill Jan. and its very hard to play around this base.