BDSM & Spain, (costa del sol anyway)

I have lived and worked in Spain and along the Costa del Sol for ten years now and it seems to be almost impossible to meet anyone involved in the BDSM scene, why I dont know as there seem to be adds aplenty and they are placed, one assumes, by interested folks but nothing, absolutely nothing seems to draw a responces, I have tried the newspaper route, almost got on first name terms with the staff in the Sur office but, nothing. I have had such relationships afore and do know the score but, here it seems very difficult.