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A few questions

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I am very new to this and have a few things i am worried about....

If someone offers to meet at a hotel for some fun, how do you tell beforehand if theyre genuine? I dont want to meet with anyone who could put me in danger especially as I am a single female.

I would prefer (for the first time) to go to a party with many people, just feeling that would be a safer environment, to meet with people, just to check things out, but how do I know if there are any parties in my area? I live in Essex and cannot travel too far.

Also as I am new and curious, if I went to a party and decided I did not want to take part, is that ok? I just feel that if I know I would be obliged to join in then maybe I would never make that first step. I would maybe just like to meet a few people.

Thanks in advance
Ellie

Re: A few questions

hi keep an eye in party section of forum for socials in your area go to 1 all u do is chat if thats wot u want.

luv becky xxx

Re: A few questions

we think you can tell by 1, the emails, 2, a phone call and 3, if you click in a bar...at the end of the day, you need to be careful cos your meeting strangers for sex...i'd at least meet first to have a laugh and take it from there. Mosts people are ok, we once had to say no, and they got a little funny, but hey they tend to take it as a personal insult. Never been a fan of parties....we like a connection and its nice to see whos' doing what....sometimes you see to many hands flying about you think your with a octopuss!!! img src="imagesadultemoticons004.gif" errr...hold on that doesnt sound too bad!!! img src="imagesadultemoticons014.gif"

Re: A few questions

lottie chill just meet in a public place and have fun thats what this is all about if you want some one to go to a partie with you iam your man iam only in elondon so iam half hour away enjoyimg src="imagesadultemoticons025.gif"

Re: A few questions

Hi Ellie,

If you would care to allow non premium members to mail you we would be happy to send you a "swingers guide" which might help.

Best wishes, Jose & Gloria