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Is there a best way to let guys know that you wouldn't mind them trying it on with my wife ?

I've tried dancing, then leaving her sitting while I nip to the toilet, only to come back and find her still sitting alone, I've sent her up to the bar for drinks and still no guy has come on to her.

We're going abroad soon and I'm keen to see if I can get her into an MFM away from home.

Anything I can do apart from wear a sandwich board saying "I wouldn't mind if you screwed my wife"

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Bring her down to Gosport and knock on my door!!!

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Nice question and one we have also considered !! See you say your going abroad this year . where go you intend to go ...snd we may find were somewhere nice together. Do let us know

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And if your coming to the Costa del Sol you can knock on my door.img src="imagesadultemoticons030.gif"

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I find it incredible that two ladies are having trouble getting men in swingers clubs.

Although I have only recently joined this site I have attended clubs for a number of years, so have some experience in this area. Personally if I saw a lady on her own, walking round obviously wanting male attention I would chat to her to see where it lead. I enjoy the flirting and chatting up, its all part of the fun.

I can only come up with two reasons why a lady walking round a club "wearing nothing but g-string, stockings, sussies and high heels with my big tits completely naked " would be ignored:

1. A lot of male swingers are genuinly ignorant and think they can just join in with the fun in the playrooms with virtually no introduction

2. A fear of being accused a bothering a woman by talking to her. Quite how they intend to enjoy themselves with a woman without talking is a mystery to me.

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I've never been to a club, in fact I'm new to all of this, but I can't for the life of me understand what is wrong with those guys! Even as a novice I know I would apprioach you if only to chat and ask if you were ok and not feeling left out. Judging by your photo even the shyest man seeing you in that attire would be mad and rude !! not to talk to you. Does anyone out there understand any of this terminology - cd's, cd,s, tv etc etc - all greek to me. When you go to a club or contact people through a site do any of you worry about being recognised?

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Cd = Cross dresser, Tv =Transvestite and Ts = Transexual.

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I've never been to a club, in fact I'm new to all of this, but I can't for the life of me understand what is wrong with those guys! ...


I also have never been to a club (but anticipating it) but I have a different perspective. Happily married, I have been in the situation where I have to careful to not show interest, even appreciate a woman as a woman so long, and non-threatening (professional work ethics issues--not problem with wife) that I don't know how to start up a conversation. Or know whether it would be appropriate to say, "Hi, gorgeous tits!" on the intial chat statement. Yes, I realize that if the tits are being flaunted in my face that particular question is probably appropriate but what about the other 85% of the women.

The other point is (again, I'm new) is there any opportunity or custom against the woman starting the conversation?

Not incidentally, is there a dictionarylexicon for some of the other code words and abbreviations such as "hfw?"