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firsttimewife

After many years of my other half trying to encourage me to go with other guys i now find that i am really ready for this & desperatly need to make my first opportunity a sucess .
I am not shy or pushy & feel happy in the company of men & have just missed the works xmas party but have seen some of the photos showing some of the females showing plenty of flesh etc.
Now i can go to the newyears party & need some advice on my codes of dress,conduct & what would be expected of me .
My clothes will be bought for me & taxis layed on & have the option of staying out all night .
Do i dress as a slutor a bit tarty or just enough to i may be available?
Do i tease flirt or sit & waite for attention
I am very willing to do anything & everything sexually but have little idea as to what men nowadays will expect from me,Obvious;ly sometime after my male work freinds will talk of my performance etc so i really need it to be favourable ,so as to encourage others to invite me out etc.
Should i focus on men of my age range or a certain age group or what !
Any help would be nice.

Re: Advice desperatly wanted

Well, here is some advice from an experienced chap who has been to 4 xmas do's in the last 12 days.

After reading your profile it sounds like you have a good body and well your shaved which is always a turn on.
You say you want to perform well so the word gets around that your hot, just be careful that you don't become the office lay. Have dirty, fun sex with someone from the office but don't have them all as it will make work intolerable.
Learn from this experience and then if you want to have more fun then play outside of work.
As a guy that loves women and the whole experience of meeting someone new, I suggest you wear something sexy but not tarty, think of the phrase us guys think, "its what you can't see that gets you excited".
Have a drink and a dance and let them buy you a drink and want you, they will, choose one or two! They must be fun, clever and you need to imagine them licking your pussy as you suck their cock, if you can imagine that then invite him or them back.

When I meet someone new I first want a good kisser, I have met on this site some ladies more for their fun chat than looks, then you kiss and you know if they kiss well they will enjoy giving as well as receiving.

Then do anything you want to do or feel comfortable doing, oil, blindfold, anal, role play, you decide.

I hope you have fun and if I can help with anything else let me know.

Harry xxxxxxxxxxxxx