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New to this so please excuse if it's a daft question but what exactly is a soft swing as opposed to a hard one?

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John

Re: Soft or hard?

no penetration

Re: Soft or hard?

Or...to elucidate a little......'full' tends to be when both ...or rather all...partners are happy to fully swap. Soft might be no penetration by the other man, or it might just be the girls fooling around. There's also 'same room' which can be either 'full' or 'soft'.

Even two 'full' couples might decide they'd prefer not to; one of the good things about all this is that you can dotake as much or as little as you wish, given the circumstances you find yourselves in - and if either of you is feeling pressured, just let the other one know and back away.

There are no hard and fast rules...although we have one....if either of us isn't happy, it ain't working. Equally, if either of us senses that someone else isn't happyis being pressuredis totally ratted (!!)..also back off.

At the end of the day, it's a game of two halves, you and your partner. keep yourselves happy and you're on the right track.

All the best, H&M xx