Newbie anal

Looking for serious advice on physically preparing for first time anal encounter. Thank you 

Hey. Thoridin58 here. There are 3 things to remember. They are - a comfortable position, being able to to relax and LUBE! One way to start is to use your own fingers. Begin by just rubbing your rectum in order to get used to the feeling. Even at this stage remember to use lube. Once you are comfortable with your sphincter being touched and rubbed, try gently inserting one finger (remember the LUBE). From there you can proceed to using more fingers. Some people move on to a thin vibratordildo and then increase size as wanted. From there it is up to you.