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New (brand new) to the lifestyle. My husband and I have talked of having threesomes (mfm and mff) but have not done anything about it.

An article I found stated that having cyber sex with someone might be the best way to start.

Any thoughts or suggestions?

Re: Cyber Sex

Start with whatever you BOTH will be comfortable with. Talk about it and respect each others wishes. If one isn't comfortable don't push it.
Be open, be honest and remember.....it should always be fun.
Cyber may be a good starting block as long as you both agree and enter it together

Re: Cyber Sex

Hi,

First of all...wish you all the best, and hope you get on well....If this works for you it's such a giggle, and can open up a whole new aspect of your lives together.

I'd suggest that you consider going along to a club close to you. The first time is absolutely terryfying!!!! However you'll soon find that swingers tend to be very friendly, nobody will think you're odd, and if you're lucky you'll find someone with whom you have chemistry.

If it doesn't happen the first time, then it might be the next, or the next, but at least you'd have some fun nights out and meet lots of new ppl.

It will also help you to refine what you both want, without the pressure of a one to one meet, and based on real life people.

My own view is that cyber is fun in and of itself, but is a very different aspect of the whole thing. There's nothing like being able to see, touch, hear, (smell!!) the other person!!

Best of luck,

H&M x

Re: Cyber Sex

Hi,

First of all...wish you all the best, and hope you get on well....If this works for you it's such a giggle, and can open up a whole new aspect of your lives together.

I'd suggest that you consider going along to a club close to you. The first time is absolutely terryfying!!!! However you'll soon find that swingers tend to be very friendly, nobody will think you're odd, and if you're lucky you'll find someone with whom you have chemistry.

If it doesn't happen the first time, then it might be the next, or the next, but at least you'd have some fun nights out and meet lots of new ppl.

It will also help you to refine what you both want, without the pressure of a one to one meet, and based on real life people.

My own view is that cyber is fun in and of itself, but is a very different aspect of the whole thing. There's nothing like being able to see, touch, hear, (smell!!) the other person!!

Best of luck,

H&M x