7:24 am Saturday, 7th May, 2005
First off, hello everyone. I've been reading some of these posts & all of you seem to be really honest with one another, so I'd like to ask everyone a question: How important is a person's weight or size? I am very self-conscious about my body. I'm clean & disease free, but I feel that the opportunity for my wife & I to experience the swinging lifestyle is in jeopardy because of my size.
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8:56 am Sunday, 8th May, 2005
Re: Self consciousHi
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7:29 pm Wednesday, 31st January, 2007
Re: Self consciousI think that last post was just a bit cruel and uncalled for. If you check the perfect computer bodies comments, you will see they admit to being a little picky. It's a matter of personal choice, not everyone out there in the swinging world is into these types of swingers.
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10:32 am Saturday, 10th February, 2007
Re: Self consciousI agree about that post being cruel, im a big girl ( size 20) and although ive never actually ventured into swinging yet ( but im working on it) i dont see my size as a problem, great personality and a nice smile does it for me, too many people obsessed with the perfect body image, i prefer something to get to grips with lol. |
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2:22 pm Friday, 16th February, 2007
Re: Self consciousI don't think that first reply was cruel, more like undiplomaticaly honest... the info and advice was solid though.
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10:11 am Wednesday, 21st February, 2007
Re: Self consciousSize needn't be a problem in swinging. Although I'm new to this site I'm not new to the lifestyle and in my own experience the fact that I'm a few pounds too heavy has never stopped me from meeting and enjoying myself with a variety of lovely ladies, ranging from very slim indeed to the larger lady.
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12:47 am Tuesday, 10th July, 2007
Re: Self consciousBig can be very beautiful! All the more to hold on to sweetie, it would be a very boring world in we were all the same - listen to your wife...if she says you carry it well, you carry it well!! good luck xx |
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6:44 pm Sunday, 15th July, 2007
Re: Self consciousHi Guys,
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4:48 pm Saturday, 21st July, 2007
Re: Self consciousWe, for example, look for people at about our 'size' . We are both slim and we both simply can not see anything erotic in a heavily overweighted person. |
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2:46 am Thursday, 16th August, 2007
Re: Self consciousHi....I would not worry so much. There are many people that really like big men honestly. So have fun and quit worrying so much. Good luck honey!!!! |