getting together for a meet.

Does anyone here read where a person is from?  I live in Nova Scotia.  I get asked to meet for coffee from everywhere but within an hrs drive.  That is all I am willing to drive to meet for a cup of joe.  Sending form letters is also not very imaginative.  Especially when they suggest meeting for coffee and you live on the other side of the country.  If you wish to chat with me please send more than a form letter