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That time of the month

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Hi guys, we're new to this and searched through looking for the answer to this question to no avail. Maybe you can help us:

Whats the accepted etiquette for a swinging woman on her period? Or is it all down to personal taste? (I mean the thought of Oral during said time is pretty gross to me, I'm talking actual intercourse)

The reason I ask is because my partner and myself are thinking of attending our first club tommorrow, and of course, much to her dismay, she started 2 days ago.

Any advice would be great :) img src="imagesadultemoticons026.gif"

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img src="imagesadultemoticons002.gif" Bad timing but some people wont be bothered and others will.Its the same with any swinging you wont find everybody compatible.I personally feel that to visit a club for the first time is somtimes stressful enough with out the problem of mother nature.I wish you luck in your decision and hope you leave it to your partner.

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We personally would postpone the first visit if it coincided with the time of the month, nothing wrong with anything at that time but you both need to feel 100% relaxed and confident and if you meet somone youreally like you will want to have fun -its not such a good icebreaker to announce your in midst of your period and could well be seen as a put down or excuse by some.

Why not go to the next one, totally uninhibited and free to flirt and enjoy everything you can !
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It wouldn't bother me, so drop me a line and I'll show you what I mean!

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me and my wife went on our first swingers club on the wirral just before christmas before we the hotel we decided to have a play while telling each other what our hopes for the night after doing ourselves I give rishka a poke with my tool and this opened the door for that to start so we had to stop at asda on the way to the club I suggested if she used Tampax this time a least she can hide it.Well we got there and it we had a great buzz rishka got a bit embarrassed when after blowing another lad he offered to go down on her and we had to tell him why he couldnt but we had a great play,and I think with it being our first time It was a blessing it happend because even though you set yourself boundrys you find it very easy to cross them which may cause one to freak out Im much older than rishka and I know back inthe ussr she had been with lots of lads but actualy seeing it is at first a bit freeky I instigated the visit and it was me who had emotional teething problems thats why I think for us that was a blessing rishka came on because she would of got strange and at that time I didnt feel good watching that and you take the problem home with you,but weve moved on now just wanted to tell you of our1st visit,

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not nice

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Wait til the visit coincides with a vampire fetish night?
I thought blood sports were banned?

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The menstrual cycle affects women differently - most feel un-sexy, but I do know some who actually get incredibly horny, others that feel no different.

Either way, some women will only meet the first time when they're mid-flow, for the simple reason that it generally prevents a possibly rash decision, and forces both parties to go home and reflect on the meet re: a follow up for full-fun.

Speaking as a man, it doesn't bother me personally in itself if a woman I really like and consider a true friend rather than a swing contact is on her period, and it certainly doesn't bother me with my partner, foxangel (our couples profile is dappledfox, should anyone be interested). However, there is a good chance of getting a bit of clotted blood trapped against the penis or under the "helmet" during sex, and rubbing one's cock to blisters!

There are more serious issues to be taken into account re: casual sex

It's blood - it GREATLY increases the risk of transmission of HIV, hepatitis B and other blood-bourne "nasties" from the woman to the man. Even if the woman knows she's STD-free, keep in mind that a man prepared to have sex (oral andor vaginal) with a woman on her period has no doubt done this before, thereby greatly increasing the possibility that he might have been infected. The blood also greatly increases the chance of condom failure, so the potential consequences are very serious indeed.

All in all, I myself would therefore advise both men and women against casual sex during this time, including oral and protected vaginal. Anal is another matter - but also riskier than vaginal generally, as it's harder on the condom (no matter how much lube you might use) and there's a good chance of causing the mucosa in the rectum to tear and bleed if it's not done very carefully and considerately. Again, blood and condom failure.

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All in all, I myself would therefore advise both men and women against casual sex during this time, including oral and protected vaginal.


So if a woman is on her period you advise people not to let her give you a blow job?

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So if a woman is on her period you advise people not to let her give you a blow job?


I would refer you to Kurt Goedl's seminal works on logical reasoning, but in light of your comments, perhaps you'd be better off just wearing a girdle.

Please do feel free to continue to quote me out of context on various forums as self-appointed editor of my postings - it gives me a good laugh during the insomniacal hours, as it no doubt does to others with functional grey matter.