6:28 pm Wednesday, 14th February, 2007
I am new to this site and indeed to swinging. As a single female I have had a number of approaces from married men whose wives do not know what they are doing. I have politely rejected these as I feel this is cheating and not swinging. Am I right or is this normal? |
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12:59 pm Thursday, 15th February, 2007
Re: Swinging or CheatingYou´ve hit the nail on the head! These guys are just cheats and this has nothing to do with swinging!
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10:43 pm Thursday, 15th February, 2007
Re: Swinging or CheatingAlthough a newbie on this site i am not a newbie to swinging.
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1:12 am Friday, 16th February, 2007
Re: Swinging or CheatingThis one has had alot of mileage in Assisstance and Etiquette, Swingers Etiquette under the post of "How do you feel about a married man swinging alone?"
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9:01 pm Wednesday, 21st February, 2007
Re: Swinging or CheatingMen who cheat apear te see sex as a secretive compulsion and means nothing to them after the act and they do not see this as cheating...My partner tells me it has nothing to do with love of his partner but I feel if you help a cheat Then you are a cheat yourself.
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10:11 pm Wednesday, 21st February, 2007
Re: Swinging or CheatingHave no idea whether or not this will help. Our first experiences were with a single girl, and then with a cpl. My hubs knew I fancied a spitroast and was happy to help me out (as it were!). Through a different website, we met up with a lovely guy who was married, and whose wife did not know. If what he told us was true, their sex life had ground to something of a halt, and he discreetly played around. He told us that he loved his wife very much and had no wish to leave or divorce her. However, he needed some sexual outlet, and found that meeting up with cpls worked for him.
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1:21 pm Sunday, 4th March, 2007
Re: Swinging or CheatingAs suggested there are all shades of grey. I have a long term partner and we live singly in separate homes because we need our own space. Our sex life has ground to a halt. I know that she would not be best pleased to learn that I have had sex with other women but I do need that outlet and I only have sex with women who are seeking the same thing; some without their hubby's knowledge, some in open relationships. It is not a simple answer to the question. |
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1:18 am Sunday, 25th March, 2007
Re: Swinging or CheatingWe don't think it's cheating as long it's you both know about it. Gem goes on cam all the time but she always tells me img src="imagesadultemoticons013.gif" |
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12:46 pm Saturday, 14th April, 2007
Re: Swinging or CheatingWell I'm one of the cheaters, and I'm well aware it's cheating - my profile says I am married and I would never try to hide the fact. My sex life at home is non existent, I have tried for many years now to make it work, talking about it, suggesting things etc, but to no avail. My Wife even said that maybe I should find a lover a few times, but after the fourth time she told me, she added she didn't want to know about it or she could turn nasty. I have no option but to go behind her back, I think a helluva lot of my Wife, but I also have sexual needs and I can't spend the rest of my life living like a Monk.
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4:06 pm Monday, 16th April, 2007
Re: Swinging or CheatingHmmmmm. Seems that this theme is running through most threads on the forum.
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9:51 am Saturday, 21st April, 2007
Re: Swinging or CheatingYou are obviously a chap with plenty of experience in these matters and have raised some very valid points. But I'd like to add to it as you have taken the time to reply politely and logically. I found this excellent site whilst searching for extramarital affairs by the way so maybe the search engines aren't quite perfect either.
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4:28 pm Wednesday, 25th April, 2007
Re: Swinging or Cheatingswinging is the activity you choose my opinion is if a married man is swinging there might be a valid reason
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10:14 pm Thursday, 26th April, 2007
Re: Swinging or CheatingNow your boot on the other foot theory is good, but I think you have missed something. What if a couple find a single male or female to join them, suppose the female decides that the single male is the person for her, or the male decides that the single female is the one for him. Now you are dealing with single people with nothing to lose - just a thought. |
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9:48 am Monday, 7th May, 2007
Re: Swinging or CheatingDear U r absolutely right it is pure cheating not a swingingimg src="imagesadultemoticons014.gif" |
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6:38 pm Wednesday, 9th May, 2007
Re: Swinging or CheatingThanks for your reply but can I start by saying that the reasoning behind me addressing the whole issue as if it were a male and not female cheating is that the post began with the quote:
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8:48 pm Sunday, 13th May, 2007
Re: Swinging or CheatingI envy all you guys and gals who have a full and regular sexual relationship. Or those who can spice their sex lives partaking as a couple. Unfortunately, I find myself in the boat with those guys who you class as 'cheating'. Or rather, I'd like to be in that category.
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7:15 am Friday, 18th May, 2007
Re: Swinging or CheatingI agree with 'swinginesp'. I'd put it the same way.
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6:06 pm Tuesday, 5th June, 2007
Re: Swinging or CheatingIn reply to your post:
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12:30 pm Thursday, 21st June, 2007
Re: Swinging or CheatingHello every one
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