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The futility of the single male

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perpetualhorn	9:30 pm Thursday, 25^th January, 2007 Hi Does anyone else find it extremly difficult as a single male? It's all couples and females. If only I could find a female who was into the swinging thing, it would all be different. That's why I'm here. But without a coupled female, I cant find any other females. How about that for a bloody frustrating catch 22? I know plenty of young, attractive, well-groomed, sociable and popular guys (myself included!) who just dont want the formality, limitation and expectation of more conventional relationships but are finding it seriously difficult to get anywhere on the internet. What's going on? Is just a case of a few overly pushy, overly obscene and generally creepy guys giving us singles a bad name? Does anyone have any ideas on how to make the single male a more attractive commodity?
ttransfer	5:23 am Saturday, 3^rd February, 2007 Re: The futility of the single male Yup, ask one of your vanilla female freinds to hold hands with you on a few swingfet clubnights, the ratio's usually a lot better than these sites... Anyways, hopefully you'll end up with a decent someone to make a couple with on occassions. Make sure that when you're arranging a meet as a couple that you're honest about your partnership. Some might be seeking a particular "safety dynamic" that they may feel would be lacking in that situation and they aught to know so beforehand... happy hunting
FETISHNIGHTS	9:21 pm Wednesday, 21^st February, 2007 Re: The futility of the single male Hi First I would put a photo on the site...it does help.Second you appear to be a sensitive guy and this appeals to lots women...Personality and just being yourself...I hate men who write things like Hi call me sometime babe..I had a man write to me today polite to the point and fitted my profile..They was exciting...We all put profiles on to attract but the art is finding more about the person..Your post made you appealing so keep it up and I know theres a woman of your dreams out there Mistress Kate
Alixx	10:45 pm Thursday, 8^th March, 2007 Re: The futility of the single male I suppose its just because theres a stigma attached to single men signing up to these sites stigma being "he must be a ugly looser" pictures destroy that stigma or add to it get a pic old boy