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There are some genuine members out there (i'm one!), but sadly there are a lot of pic hunters, time wasters and fakes - but that's true of other sites as well i'm afraid. The first "Girl" i struck up a conversation with turned out to be a Nigerian conman after money - so hopefully you've not had anything like that! Keep looking, but just be careful and try to chat to someone Online first to get to know them a little - if they won't even do they're not going to be worth your time anyway.