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espnrt

My wife INSISTS that 99%+ of open-minded and sexually uninhibited women would, given the choice if ALL other factors were equal, prefer a lover to be very big (or huge), as opposed to average sized where it counts. So I ask you women out there, is she correct in her assessment of the attraction to, all other things being equal, a well-endowed man?

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I personally don´t agree. It´s not size that matters, it´s what he does with it!
icu123

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They all feel good to me, but my personal fav is medium with a good girth. I have had a few 3 somes with large men and have to say the smaller ones feel the best. I suppose women come in all sizes too, so it is just personal taste. If the shoe fits.

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Sorry, I don't agree. I've had one very well endowed partner and he was obviously very proud-but the sex was incredibly dull and really quite painful as he had no technique.

Very large is a turn-on to look at, but doesn't work out like that in practice.
ThatThereWideboy

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They all feel good to me, but my personal fav is medium with a good girth.


That's a coincidence, I have a thing for slim, small-breasted brunettes.

My God that is an embarrassing (though true) reply, especially in public. I know I shouldn't click post, but I can't not do so, I cannot resist the urge to destroy myself.

God damn it, why must I be this way?
ttransfer

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Because you're honest, and more power to ya for that.
Though my gender doesn't qualify me to answer the original question...:

I wouldn't call myself well endowed, (too much porn...), but the women that pop in and out of my life tell me i'm definately am. And they're happy about that. That said, it can be a real pain - specially on nights you really wanna let rip but you know you have to be carefulprescise because the woman you're with is, err, let's say, a tight fit...

Strange thing to hear a man say, but sometimes i wish it was about an inch and a half shorter n a quarter inch narrower - I hardly ever get any anal sex, even when I'm the one that breaks the botty in with a smaller toy :(



.... was that too much, should i retract that? ... first post here...

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I had a partner who was huge but didn't know what to do with it. My current other half is medium and much better, a considerate lover makes up for inches

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Five years ago I would have been at the front of the queue with a banner saying size don't matter, but after settling down with my partner, I will have to hold my hands up and say yes it does - well to me anyway. I am really happy with my otherhalf and am not often satisfied after swinging, and its taken a long time to get through to him that "yes I am VERY lucky to have him"

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No, I went to jamaica last year and got it on with a lovely black man but he was too big and it hurt so much I had to ask him to stop, yet when I was in my early twenties I liked them big. I think that as you get older you know more what you want and comfort is definately on mY agenda. (then again I wouldnt want tiny either)
X

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I totally agree with icu123....medium with a decent girth. There's nothing worse in my book than having a few inches redundant and not able to fit inside...i mean what is the point!! Not to mention it sometimes being uncomfortable, no actually painful with a guy who is over endowed!! Women certainly come in all 'fits' and the fun is finding the ideal 'fit'!!!
SirLanceaload

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I agree. I prefer girth, but it's more about how the man can stimulate my clitoris than how big he is.img src="imagesadultemoticons008.gif"

WILDWET

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Always WELL ENDOWED!!

Absolute rubbish..those men who say
'Its not the size..its what u do with it'!!

What a turn off when one is so horny & wet dying for a deep hard fuck...when she finds all he has is a tiny squidgy cock!
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WILDWET

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OH YES.....SIZE MATTERS...Nothing better then a BIG HARD THROBBING COCK...

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Hi - yes I also have to disagree. I have experienced a VWE man and it really was quite painful, plus the fact that he was so into getting off himself that I was left feeling totally frustrated.
I much prefer an average sized man who knows that he has to work a little to please a woman, not one who thinks the size of his tool alone is enough.

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Size dosant matter as long as its not to small. Or that becomes its own problem. If you are eager to please the person you are having sex with that makes a big difference. If your horny as hell well that takes it a step further.

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liberbib

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Can't speak from personal experience but the paindiscomfort and a fear of the big cock is a major turnoff for my wife and is making her hesitant to try entering into the lifestyle. As we have developed our love-making, she has discovered that she needsrequires penetration but benefits from clitoral pressure (not rubbing or tickling). A larger cock actually causes problems with this (I think the angle is wrong) and the issue of technique becomes more important and offers more opportunities for variation and consideration of the partner.
RIOandADAM

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my partner is particularly well endowed and to be honest its amazing! but it does come with problems...it takes a LONG time to get him to cum and we go through enough lube to gloat a ship! he literally cant fit inside me if were not using alot of the stuff..

but i wouldnt want him to be any smaller...its such a turn on seeing what effect i have on him...
ukwedan

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i quit agree with your comment the more you grow the more you know what it takes ,there's this lady i came across shes being having big time with her partner for a while, along the line they broke up she stayed without having sex for a year .when we together she had to blead a lil though i consider mine average .

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I like playing with large ones but for full sex I much prefer medium. Very large ones are painful for me, but I suppose it depends on the size of the vagina as well. I am quite small framed and had both my kids by section so things are still tight down there, but I suppose a larger woman after a couple of kids the natural way would much prefer bigger ones.

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I once had a fling with a woman from my old job. She was 8 years older than me (I was 35 & she was 43 at the time) She was in a relationship with a guy who had a 10" cock. She told me that when they had sex, she could only do in doggy style as it hurt her in the missionary position. We first had sex in the back of her car in a car park on Epsom Downs one night. She was on top of me and she LOVED it!!! img src="imagesadultemoticons016.gif"
We next had sex in the front room of her house (when her boyfriend was at work... NOT recommended.) It was then that she told me that I was the "just the right size" (I'm 'about' 5 34" - 6" in length) Now this woman wasn't just seeing me.
I understand that some women would want a big or huge cock inside them and that 'some' women (I've heard) would not date a guy if he was of average size?! If the sex is just casual, then that's ok I guess? BUT, if the woman is in a relationship but isn't satisfied with her boyfriendshusbands size, well then that woman is pretty shallow!!! The last proper relationship I was in, the woman in question had 38DD breasts!!! Nice size! I have also dated women with small breasts!!! Makes no difference!!! I love women FULL STOP!!!

perfect size for me

I like 7 inches and thick n meaty although im not a big girl and have no kiddies. I do love to play with a big cock and suck away on big ones but if a full night or afternoon of sex then the best size for me is between 6 - 8 inches no bigger

It how you use it

From the male prospective it how we use it that counts -- Well that's what I was told.
My partners ex had a cock twice the size of mine but she say's I give her much better sex and orgasms which she had never had before......

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my bf is huge and i love it, but have had fun with average sized men, that said...usually the fingers doing most of the leg work

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Lesbians seem to manage to have loads of fun with not a thing between them. I always believed that foreplay - lots of it, was the build up to an explosion.

I tried to compete with those machines but I could'nt make it vibrate no matter how much I trained it, and I sure could'nt make it grow two heads!

I don't think it's about dicks any more. One of those little machines can keep going longer than a whole regiment of SAS.

Nowadays it's more about attitude, not equipment. If you're really excited you'll get off on match stick.

Big v Average

My ex-husband has a big cock and sex with him was unimaginative and often painful. I would not be able to relax during sex as I would be waiting for the pain when he thrust too hard andor too deep or at a funny angle. Therefore I rarely had an orgasm with him; he also was a selfish lover and did nothing with his mouth or fingers to help me along. He had lots of affairs, so there must have been women out there who liked his cock or what he did with it.

Now for me, I like Mr Average, it fits well (I am told I have a tight pussy) and I can enjoy sex without the fear of pain. I also find that the men I meet are more considerate in bed and take time to pleasure me as well as themselves.