Drawing her in, drawing her out!

I think I may have found a lady who will be my partner in the swinging lifestyle. She's a bright, young, good looking Slovakian girl with a great appetite for sex. Obviously I want to do this right and it seems there's a few options. 1. Go to a club 2. advertise for a couple. 3. Go to a party.
I've experienced the club scene on my own and it can be a bit of a scrum although La Chambre on a Sunday seemed relaxed. It's a bit of a trip from Leicester though and I was wondering if anyone could tell me about Liberation in Lutterworth. Can you go on a trial visit? I imagine parties are difficult to get into.
Any success stories or advice would be welcome