my july, meet and time wasting experiences

In July I went to China for about two weeks, then to Paris for a week, and then the UK for another week and am now preparing to visit West Africa.

Being an NBF, before going to each country I try to get in contact with members in the cities I’ll be visiting so that we can get to know each other and arrange to meet up. In this instance, some of the members I contacted in each country were not interested or didn’t reply my messages (fair enough), while some seemed very interested, responded positively and we agreed to get in contact on my arrival.

When I arrived China I sent out messages to the members who initially agreed to meet up and only one replied and actually turned up for a meet. The rest just didn’t answer or even read my messages. The lady who did turn up was a very lovely lady, sexy and hot and we really wanted to get it on. Unfortunately we disagreed on one important aspect (I wanted safe sex she didn’t) so we parted ways without anything happening.

I was however able to have NSA sex with three different ladies, none of which I met on this site, but who I met on my own. One was a French lady staying at the same hotel as mine, one a Malaysian lady I met at a restaurant and a Chinese lady I met on my visit to China last year. The French lady was the best, mature, experienced and a tigress in the real sense. She knew what she wanted and made sure she got it over and over again, even though she was older than me she left me knackered and sore which in my case it’s usually the reverse.

Back in France, Paris was a bit different; again some of the members who initially agreed to meet up didn’t answer my messages when I got there and those that did gave excuses (maybe real, most likely not) as to why they had to cancel the meet. Having said that I had also arranged a meet up with a German lady who I know from another site like this, we did meet up and had three days of serious no holds extreme fun.

London was more or less a repeat of China but with an added twist. Only one couple, an English couple, eventually turned up for a meet. However in this case we met on the first day and after getting to know each other over drinks at the hotel I was staying at, we exchanged phone numbers and agreed to meet up again the following evening. This was fine with me, but based on my previous experiences I was expecting another set of excuses as to why they wouldn’t be able to make it. To my surprise the next evening I got a call from them telling me they were on their way. When they arrived at my hotel I got an even better surprise; the husband wasn’t going to stay but gave me a list of things he wanted me to do to the wife as well as his camera to take pics to prove it. There was nothing out of the ordinary on the list, I obliged had a good time and am now waiting for him (Steve) to send me some pics.

I’m off to visit West Africa and will get in contact with members there and see how it goes.

I experienced time wasters before and have read about member’s experiences with this type of time wasting behavior, reflecting on it I’ve come to the following conclusions.

1. While this site is good for getting to know and meet people, there are a very high number of fakes and time wasters who are only here to get their kicks for one reason or another and not for actually meeting up. So never have high hopes on meeting members until the meet actually happens. But when it happens it may be better than you expected.

2. If you are travelling to different countries, while it’s a good idea to get in contact with members from this site for meets, you will also have to work alone to have NSA fun.

3. When visiting different countries, you’ll be surprised to find out you may end up having NSA fun with people who are not from the country you’re visiting, and they maybe be even from your home base or close to it.

I’ll try and update this at the end of my West African visit, but in the meantime I’d love to receive member’s comments.