January Indulgence Swingers Party

ATTENTION TO PEOPLE WHO WISHES TO ATTEND
SWINGERS PARTY HOUSE RULES
These parties are primarily a swinger’s affair. That does not mean that physicalsexual interaction between individuals is a given. Some people will be there for watching and being watched. For them even a soft touch is over the top. NO ONE should not come to the party expecting to get laid or sucked off by others.
1. NO MEANS NO!
This is the Main Rule; Yes, these are parties at which anything can (and often does) happen, but no one is to be pressured to do anything they don't want to do. If you can't respect other people's wishes swinging is NOT for you! No is not an insult. No may be because of a mood, a rule, or it might mean the other person (couple) is not ready. It may also mean, "No, thank you, but I'm not interested." That is every swinger’s prerogative. It may or may not be personal. We are all adults, deal with it!
2. NO PRESSURE:
by the same token, anyone is allowed to pressure YOU to do anything that you do not wish to do. If anyone tries to pressure you into doing anything, or is being unduly aggressive, let us know and the offending parties will be shown the door.
3. WOMEN CONTROL THE PLAY
at parties. We are all aware that some women like to initiate, and some like to be approached andor pursued by men. Having said that, no male should EVER touch a female intimately without her consent. And no, the mere presence of a woman at the party does NOT imply her consent.
4. HANDS
Watch those hands. Don't be handsy. Don't grab other people, their breasts, and their butts, don't pull up their skirts. Before you have had sex it's rude and after you have had sex it’s still rude! Being handsy makes people uncomfortable and, even worse, it make people not like you.
5. PLAY-AT-YOUR-OWN-RISK!
People, know themselves. In your enthusiasm to play, don't forget that you are a human mortal of whatever age and physical condition. If, however, you do forget your limits, that's on you. We are not responsible for any conditions sustained during the course of the party.
6. DRUGS:
Our parties are drug free. People arriving excessively impaired (our call) and or visibly high will not be allowed into the party. You will not get a refund! Anyone becoming excessively high or impaired (our call) after arriving will be ejected from the party without a refund. You will also be removed from the group and future party lists. This is for the protection of our other guests.
7. ALCOHOL
is permitted. Feel free to bring your own alcoholic refreshments. Note that we consider allowing drinking to be a privilege bound to your own self-control. Many other parties are dry (no alcohol permitted). People arriving excessively impaired (our call) or drunk will not be admitted to the party. Becoming excessively drunk (our call) after arriving will get you ejected from the party without a refund. You will be removed from the group and future party lists. After all, no one can get a hard-on when trashed. This is for the protection of our other guests.
8. WHAT HAPPENS IN THE PARTY STAYS IN THE PARTY!
Do not mention to non-party members, and especially to hotel staff or other hotel guests, that there is a sex party going on. When talking to other party members outside the parties, be discreet. You don't know who might overhear you. This is a very private matter for most, and one they don't want most people to know about. Never, ever mention names!
9. NO CAMERAS OR RECORDING DEVICES ALLOWED!
We are aware that some people like being photographed or filmed during play, and that's great. However, many people are uncomfortable with the mere presence of cameras at parties. This includes the use of cell phones in any area where play is on-going. Deposit your cellphones to the host and you may check from time to time by asking the host your phones and you can make call or received call outside of the room. You may request for picture taking with the consent of people involved.
10. SPECIAL FOOD NEEDS:
Part of the donation is put towards the purchase of snacks, beverages & party supplies. If you have any special dietary requirements please bring them along.
11. SEX PARTY!!!
There will be a sitting area where most of the action will not be taking place during the arrival time. After that time however, people are pretty much allowed to do what they like where they like. If someone decides to go at it in the middle of the sitting area, this is perfectly acceptable, and even encouraged by the more voyeuristic amongst us. The point is, DO NOT attend the sex party if you do not want to see things sexual.
12. CONDOM USE IS THE RULE,
the exception being established couples who chose to play with each other. We do ask party guests to bring their own condoms.
13. TOYSCUSTOMS:
We welcome group members to bring along any sex toys andor other erotic paraphernalia and customs your lustful little heart’s desire. Symbian’s are especially welcome!
14. SMOKING:
No smoking of ANY substance, especially illegal ones is permitted in any part of the hotel’s rooms. This includes the bedrooms, kitchenette, halls and ALL of the bathrooms. Exiting and reentry of the room for hourly smoke breaks is discouraged as it brings undue attention to us. Unknown people may tailgate the smoker’s reentry and jeopardize the party’s security. Other party’s precedence or allowances DO NOT apply at our parties.
15. NOISE:
To the hotel we are an innocuous group. Drawing attention to ourselves with excessive noise may cause them to visit and reprimand or ask us to remove ourselves from the hotel. It is everyone’s responsibility to keep others behaving quietly (outside of sounds of passion, a ‘normal’ sound in a hotel). We’d like keep using this hotel for a long time too!
16. ARRIVAL and DEPARTURE TIMES:
Arrive an hour before the party proper. No one will be admitted after without prior arrangement. The hosts would like to party too! If you leave the party, the