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6:35 am Friday, 19th June, 2020

When I think or the MasterServant dynamic I immediately link it to BDSM. In my mind’s eye I see Dungeons, bondage, pain. Not that there is anything wrong with that and I understand many people enjoy..

6:13 am Friday, 19th June, 2020

When you first talk to a prospective Dom face to face, it’s easy to be overwhelmed with mixed and complicated feelings. You want to appear calm and collected but usually the confidence you have at..

3:18 am Tuesday, 16th June, 2020

It’s ironic that these two opposites are inextricably bound to each other.  The Dom has a deep need to be in control, while the Sub yearns to be controlled. Separately they are consumed by..

12:28 am Tuesday, 16th June, 2020

Some people can remain unfulfilled after meeting someone because they have missed a simple but vital ingredient. Ticking the box of likes and preferences does not always mean instant chemistry..

10:22 am Monday, 15th June, 2020

To the uninitiated, a submissive relationship is about one partner doing what the other one wants, no questions asked. But to those in the know, a submissive relationship is more correctly defined by..

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