I recently joined the site. When my wife and sub was killed in early 2015, I put this part of my life on "Hold" and are now trying to get back into things. We luckily had 6 great years together.
Friends have recently tried to set me up with various women but, frankly, I am not looking for someone to play bridge with or share the crossword puzzle with or watch TV with and that's it. Maybe some hand holding or a kiss but that's not what I need.
I have been a Dominant for most of my life and it is part of me. As the character in "Monty Python And The Holy Grail" said "I'm not dead yet!"