I had been dating a guy on and off in college, from the time I was 19 to 21. I had all of my firsts with him — kiss, sleepover, hand job, etc. but I always chickened out when it came to having sex. I would say 'No' and put it off until we had finally ended things for good and I panicked a little when I realized I was a 21 year old virgin. About a year and a half later I had moved to NYC, gotten my own apartment far away from my hometown in Florida, and decided I wanted to just fucking lose my v-card to someone. I met a guy on OKCupid who was sweet, tall, and very respectful. Our first date we ended up having sex and it was nothing like I thought it would be. It didn’t hurt. It felt nice. We went slow. After it was over I remember thinking to myself, 'That was it?' It felt like it was silly to have waited so long over something that didn’t change anything about who I was as a person. I guess I’m glad I waited until I was mature enough and old enough to make a thoughtful decision, but I still don’t get why society puts so much pressure on it! As long as you’re safe and responsible it shouldn’t be a big deal.'
I'm 21 years old, living in the Delhi region.
I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 18 and 29.
