Me and my partner are a huge fan of using toys in the bedroom, we find it's exciting and enhances our experience allot! Yet I am surprised by the amount of people who are against using various toys in the bedroom.
I am always surprised to see and read how many males think that if their partner wants to use a sex toy he is performing inadequately and personally I don't think this could be further from the truth! I think using sex toys is a joint decision based on wanting to experiment and try new things. That's certainly how it worked for me and my partner (Trust me he definitely satisfies me enough without them!) we just wanted to try it and see what the fuss was about and trust me now we definitely know!
Unfortunately we've still received some less than pleasant comments about it when we used a few toys on webcam which resulted in most males on the site saying that we were using them because my partner was 'not enough'. Safe to say we haven't visited that site since and after posting a picture using a toy on Adult Hub we were pleased with the good response from our fellow members!
Using toys has become second nature to us as we've recently invested in a few more adventurous ones to see how they work for us. Trying new toys is an exciting experience and has really strengthened out sex life! Safe to say I definitely think we’ll be investing in some more in the near future 😜
All I can say is if you're a male worried about your partner wanting to use toys, well don't! You aren't going to be replaced, and you aren't inadequate! It's a fun experience for both of you.
And if any women are considering it all I can say is invest in a toy as soon as possible! It really is allot of fun and I have recommended toys to not only my friends in couples but my single ones too (Just because there may not currently be a man in your life doesn't mean you shouldn't experience the fun a good toy can bring!)
Laura xxx
3:59 pm Thursday, 4th July, 2013
I seem to recall there was a blog about this recently (qv). |
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4:05 pm Thursday, 4th July, 2013
Oh really! |
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6:04 pm Thursday, 4th July, 2013
Oh right, I didn't see the blog post at all sorry! |
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6:22 pm Thursday, 4th July, 2013
We love our toys but also have a great time without! I think that is the beauty of sex it can be different, fun and enjoyable every single time. |
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10:00 pm Thursday, 4th July, 2013
Toys are absolutely great in bedroom. |
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11:25 pm Thursday, 4th September, 2014
Go to your room! |