Dear Community
Being new isn't easy!
On one end are the tips that scroll in grey on the top of the site. They remind me to go slow, take my time and so on....
On the other end are the veterans of this space, inviting us to take the leap! And not just small steps but going all the way. Anything less is just a cop out.
Between these two ends is my confused mind and leaping heart. Trying to make sense of pictures that are blurred and messages that can be cryptic. There are sparks of hope too - with some really witty conversations.....
Some die down....others flicker like tentative flames that may become fire....
As I do this I have realized that finding that right couple itself is a part of the fun....the hunt is as much of a journey.....it is an exciting adventure to discover WHO will be the people we'll share an intimate space with....
Will it be you? Will it be us?
Let's find out :)
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2:22 am Thursday, 11th November, 2021
You write brilliantly and we agree that the journey is more exciting then the destination cheers 🥂 |
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1:16 am Sunday, 21st November, 2021
Going slow is smart. As you pointed out, it’s as much about self discovery as it is about passion and fulfillment. I recommend starting by exchanging fantasies. It clarifies what both party’s are looking for and starts to build the excitement and anticipation for what might be to come. Talk dirty to each other. Its exciting and fun but also helps break the ice and gets you comfortable on an intimate level with your new friend. Don’t be shy about this. Neither of you would be on this sight if this wasn’t what you were wanting. |
