hi girls
would like to ask you a question and get your feed back on this matter
does being polite matter to you on here, what do you girls look for in manners, someone who is rough and ready but polite or someone who is rough and ready and rude and don't care what they say to you
looks don't really matter, as most guys are rough and ready on here anyway, lol and not only that beauty is only skin deep and in the eyes of the beholder
was chatting to a very nice lady on here, and I hope it carrys on as well, she just mentioned tho that I could be too polite, well maybe she has a point, but as it say's on im profile I don't pretend to be something im not
also girls I know there is a various of ages on here I was just wondering on what age would be best for you, and what age would you consider maybe meeting with or does that go hand in hand with how the guy conducts himself on here
would love to hear the feed back girls
thank you
snogs for all of you ladies out there xxxxxxxxxxx
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1:46 pm Saturday, 29th June, 2013
Polite does it for me, and easing into the flirtatious (and more) part. Someone who jumps into the "rough and ready" bit is a turn off. I like to think that a guy wants to get to know me a bit, I'm not just a piece of meat. I may be different, but that's what works for me. |
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4:56 am Sunday, 30th June, 2013
I like to think that in "propositioning" someone on this site (and it's usually blokes that initiate things here) I'm polite and controlled. On the other hand, the whole point of meeting people here is to establish some sort of sex-based liaison, so if your opening few e-mails are about the weather, the latest antics of some celeb, or whether you like sushi, I think most women would lose interest fairly rapidly. I think you have to be aware that we're here for a specific reason and keep that in mind at all times, without being crass, crude or intimidating. If people have reasonably detailed profiles, a good approach is to pick up on a few points they have mentioned, and then at least you can't be accused of making "unwelcome overtures". Hopefully on that basis things can develop. |
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12:16 pm Sunday, 30th June, 2013
ive been accused of being too polite as well on a couple of occasions and not just on this site. i dont think you can 'polite' your way into someones knickers to be honest. it seems if youre too polite people assume youre not capable of being dominating and controlling in the bedroom which is exactly what a lot of woman want on this site. you always hear woman saying that they want a gent and they want to be treated like a lady but in my experience, whether they realise it or not, the old cliche is right, deep down most woman want a 'bad boy. polite guy for chatting and bad boy for fucking. thats my two pennies worth anyway |
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1:36 pm Sunday, 30th June, 2013
kinkyfun: You've got a good point there, mate. I suspect many women hope for a gent in public and an animal in bed. I think the problem is striking the right balance in the initial chit-chat. Sometimes, though, what a woman actually says in her profile can provide clues as to the appropriate approach. I mean if she describes herself (hypothetical example) as a "sex-crazed size queen slut", then obviously she's not going to be too impressed with "do you like gardening?" as an opening chat-up line :-) |
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2:05 pm Sunday, 30th June, 2013
lol@Lilith |
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9:27 pm Sunday, 30th June, 2013
susie and mossy up a tree..... |
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6:04 am Monday, 1st July, 2013
I have only been a member for a couple of days and so far, I have been sent some really polite messages from guys. It really is quite overwhelming. For example, one of the most polite introductions went something like this "Read my profile. If you want me to fuck you get in touch." He was even good enough to send me a nice big picture of his not-so-nice willy.
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6:30 am Monday, 1st July, 2013
Polite works every time. Kinky, Skebbie - I have to agree with you to a point but it is possible to find a well-mannered animal who says thank you aferwards ... :)
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