I believe that men and women should be available to spank (or be spanked) as needed, with whatever instrument, as hard as the spanker wishes, for as long as the spanker wishes. We should behave to bare our souls (and asses, when needed) so that those around us can make us behave as we were meant to. Mommy, I wish nothing more than for you to put me over your knee, drop my drawers and give me the treatment that I need (and, in some cases, want) so that I will become a more pliant individual in the eyes of you and those I have offended in the past, the present and the future.
Want to be spanked HARD - use what you want, as hard as you want, as long as you want