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This post will probably get fleshed out more as I gain the knowledge and time of what I'd like to say.
Starting off, About Me:
I grew up in a very traditional culture where Men were the dominant entity and females were the ones that were led. That has probably shaped my worldview as well as my kinks the most. I am currently 19 years old. I am of African American descent and stand at about 5 feet 6 inches tall coming in at around 120 lbs. I would describe my body type as athletic/very fit and have what I would consider, an average size appendage. I currently live in the Bay Area, specifically on the East Side, renting my own place with a roommate. I work full time and I am completely independent from my parents although I still have a great relationship with my parents and family and have zero debt, offspring or other external responsibilities.
I will also be putting myself through school starting in the Fall so if you message me and it takes a while to get back to you, I am most likely occupied with other engagements and I will do my best to respond as soon as possible.
Other than kink. I like to read, love anything to do with tools and cars, I'd consider myself handier than most. I am currently learning to play the guitar . I served as a cadet for a number of years before being rejected by the Armed Services due to medical disqualifications.
An Important note is that. I am a pretty nonsexual or asexual person. Sex is not really the goal for me. It can be a tool to achieving the goal but for example being a Disciplinarian. My focus and where I get my pleasure from is being able to help a person grow and develop as well as the satisfaction of setting rules and enforcing the consequences.
Kink Interests:Nonsexual Service.Sadism.Body Modifications.CNC.Orgasm Control and Denial.Permanent Orgasm Denial.Oral and Anal Only.Domestic Service.Rules, Regulations and Edicts.Chastity.Hair Removal.Clothing Control.
What I am looking for:
I am looking for currently for a short or long term relationship either in real life or online in any of these three categories or a combination of any of them.
1. I have always been fascinated by pain and currently have a pretty high pain tolerance. Tears are a major turn on for me. I am seeking a canvas in order to practice, experiment and explore. My ultimate goal is to have a pain slut who I can beckon and use at my whim as stress release or even just to amuse myself.
2. Discipline has always been a major focus of my life. From the society I grew up in, to my father who served my country with honor to personal beliefs. Discipline has been one of the few things that has never failed me. I seek to share that gift with someone else who needs it. My ideal candidate would be a young college student in a similar living arrangement as my own who wants someone to ensure they're accountable in eating right, making sure they're living quarters are kept clean, homework done, etc. Depending on how far we go, I'd like to incorporate cnc as well as more stringent control, such as orgasm control, clothing, budgetary to communication. The sky is the limit honestly.
3. I would like to train someone to be the perfect wife or girlfriend. How to cook and clean and do laundry (you'd be surprised at how many people don't know how to do laundry these days). On the other hand. I would like a domestic service relationship especially if its nonsexual. Someone who wants to clean and have it be subject to an inspection with consequences for every little mistake. Think Military white glove inspections.
Closing:Thank you for taking the time to read my Ad, I really appreciate it. If you do decide to comment or message me, please include your name. A brief description of who you are and what you're specifically looking to get out of a relationship. Thank you.I do have pictures available at request however, I like to see who I am talking to as well so if you do want to request one, please have one to exchange. In case anyone cares, I am fully vaccinated.
V/rX (Not my real name, obviously)
