When entering a bdsm relationship drawing up agreements is a good way to set boundaries limits and allow for trust building the more trust the more pleasure and kink experience both can enjoy plus it can allow for stamina building starting with say20minute sessions and building up from their to say 2-24 hrs max or longer with breaks in between rounds to allow relaxation of stresses strains and pains loosen bondage or remove or change to leash or if agreed to cage make breaks 20mins - 1hr or until partner is ready for more but putting it down in writing and signing it makes it a flexible yet binding agreement and will help make it the best positive enjoyable experience for both parties it could lead to days of pleasure over time
