Crossing the Divide: CDTrans

There are some things that people should be aware off in the whole transgender / cross dressing world. Now I know the site tends to group them, but they are not quite the same.

Generally, very generally:

Transgender, more likely living their life as a woman, though some are in the early stages, and not out publicly yet.

Crossdressing, more a fun thing, fetish, turn on, whatever you want to call it. Though many cross dressing people do cross the divide, and are just exploring for now.

It is a bit of a minefield, mental health wise. Referring to someone, who has told you they are trans by their birth gender won't make them feel happy. Sucks, but there you are. So if someone is a trans woman, for example, saying something like boy pussy, to describe their ass, is not likely to be good for them.

They may also be less comfortable with using their cock, if they still have one, on you. That doesn't mean they don't want to be touched there, but they might not. There can also be functional problems if they are on hormones. On the other side, if you more straight or a top, they may not be expecting more than you can give

So if you do want to have fun with a trans/CD person, we are fun people after all, make sure to know what path they are on, it will make things more fun for them and you. It will also do something to avoid anyone getting disappointed or their time wasted.

Also, an important point, if you just want them to show you how to dress up and do makeup, at least know the basics about that. There are 1000s of you tube videos about makeup.

It will mean you are much more likely to get a rematch, or even a match. :)

A CD/Trans person is not just for christmas. :)

Now go forth and have fun.

Some terms to avoid: Trap, tranny, shemale. They do not have positive connotations in the trans world.

For context. I am a trans woman, that means you will never see me sans makeup/wig. Even if you spot me in the street, though I am also lazy and I don't spend an hour getting ready to go to the corner shop. I am totally out.

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