Ever read in those tabloid magazines about some celebrity who's on their umpteenth marriage? Have you ever experienced in your personal life someone who's been married 3 times before they're even 30? The problem in most relationships is people don't know how to resolve conflict. In a regular relationship, you typically have two people, each nearly equal to the other in stature. In my marriage with my ex-wife, we were both college educated and had our own jobs. When a conflict would arise, we would get into heated arguments because we're both trying to get a leg up on the other trying to convince the other that we're right. Sometimes, even regretfully, that may mean ripping down the other person. I'm looking for a different type of relationship with BDSM. If I'm a true sub, I'll want my Master to always be right. My Master should always have the option to win if they should so choose to take it. If I should get in an argument with my Master, he should be thinking to himself "You know I'm tired of listening to your yap, pull those pants down and bend over". If I have any respect for my master, my mouth should close, the pants should hit the floor, and my bare ass should be up in the air waiting for my Master's attitude adjustment.
