It took a while for the wife to finally come to a decision that she wanted to add a third. It takes what it takes.
Sometimes time can be your best friend. The married couple accepted that there wasn't going to be anyone better. Yet, the spark had seemed to have fizzled in the past few months.
There was an excitement that they both admitted was missing.
At that low point, when they had their 'clearing of the air meeting', he came out to her that he was bi, and had been fantasizing about other men. specifically, about seeing her with other men, and he there to be a part of it.
And he wanted to do something with the guy, but wasn't specific about it.
He wanted to discuss this more at another time; simply put it out there that it needed to be discussed, and set another time to discuss that issue.
They decided that they were going to look into opening their intimacy to an outsider, but didn't know at all what form this would be.
It started to fuel her imagination of watching her man suck another man.
She realized that she's always had a latent fantasy of two guys giving her the full attention she feels she's missing. After all that time, she kinda wants to still feel sexy, that she can still get a guy.
Eventually, she decides to investigate this through posting a profile on a site that caters to these types of interactions; where he handles all the public interactions.
After this, there's nothing more certain of how to proceed forwards in this pursuit. It's difficult enough to find a suitable partner, but what happens when things go stale, and you don't want to find another partner because the partner is a good person, just a little boring, maybe...
Or, would like to have quality time with another guy and the wife, together.
Additionally, the wife that is good with this, and wants to be part of it, is a bit of an angel, and should be cherished, and be made a focal point of two mens' attention. Seems like a fair trade off.
This is where I come into the picture.
I reply to your profile. I happen to be one of the first ones, which is a good thing, I believe. I actually have some years experience with this very thing, from a practical perspective. I've worked at a fetish club, where some of the clientele were involved in this very thing.
Predominantly the club is a men's leather and fetish club.
(This is a bar with an entertainment license, which allows for "live entertainment.") There's alot of dialog that goes on behind the scenes to get these types of triune meetings to blossom into fruition.
It takes time.
Patience is an action word; it is something which must be exercised.
She can take a while to feel properly towards a meeting, if it's ever going to occur. In the meantime, her mind must be stimulated.
He reads the profiles without ever showing her the pictures.
The third party must stand, or fall, on the merits of his profile, without any visual aids involved. Literally, this type of blind date works very well.
Among other reasons, it adds to the excitement.
He and I decided a time and place to meet.
She of course would not be told anything, other than that they were going out to a certain bar, an she should dress as seductively as she felt comfortable.
She has to believe that its a random night. She is not going to know when, or where they will meet up. He will text me when they get there, so we can meet-up in the right place.
She's decked-out and looks fantastic; very sexy.
I know where I'm going to meet them, but she does not.
This is supposed to be totally random, and have an 'organic feel' to it.
I get the text that they're at the bar, waiting for their drinks.
When I get there, the couple is there, but there's another man talking to her.
A seat is open next to him. I sit there.
The stranger and she have hit it off very well.
Naturally, I assume this is another final contestant in the challenge.
Those of us prospects are supposed to pretend to be ignorant of the challenge, so that no one gets "outed." In theory, all guys are potentially on the table, so to speak.
I assume that he's another contestant; take my place quietly next to the husband. We make small talk, and get to know each other. We have a nice conversation. I like him.
There's 4 of us collectively chatting.
Simply the chill nature of this is inspirational, and seems to have done both of the couple a bit of good.
She's smiling, and flirting.
It's interesting, because we all know a part of the plan, but we are all supposed to act "normal." it's exhilerating.
- End of part 1
