Covid. Family. Work. Life. Stress.
The list of trials & tribulations Impede upon our lives more & more today?
As Swingers, a colloquialism for sure, we seek sex,sun,sea,sand & a glass of Sangria & not necessarily in that order!
So why do we all spend an eternity pinging messages back & forth.....? Yes there are those that message " fancy a Shag" & those that answer "yes" . They meet,they do,they part! If it suits then fine,but I think for the majority we want to know a little more? As humans it's a basic instinct to want that,surely?
.....so the messages have pinged to 'n fro. We know you like certain things,you know we like certain things? Boundaries have been laid. Your Ass may be up for visiting, butt mine isn't! My Punani wants a certain width yours wants a certain depth! Yes it's all in the detail....🤔
So having gone through that courtship, then either,or both parties have got childcare sorted, got their best gladrags & sequin thong ironed and that's just the guys!
Then......nothing......no message,no pointer that feet have turned to ice & the Viagra has worn off?
So you have spent all of that time & all for nothing, NADA,nite? ....both sets of people affected. People that you could have possibly met have now gone off with Sid & Nancy instead!
I've read in countless profiles the line
"DOES ANYONE ACTUALLY MEET ON HERE"?
The answer I feel for many is only in their head, as the actual reality scares the pants back on them!
So the moral.....?
If we ask to meet & you tell us upfront that you would love to,but that you probably are never likely too, then that would be an appreciation for damn sure?
TnGx
