Be prepared to meet up

Have you ever actually talked to a person from here?


I have, sometimes it seems awkward as if they were unprepared yo actually talk to a live person. Oh, its easy enough to chat in a chatroom or via text, but when the reality of the fact there is actually a live person on the other end of the phone sets in they tense up.


Sometimes, they are shaken by the fact they told some untruths and are called on it. Other times it seems rehearsed all to well and red flags start flying, bells or sirens ringing in your head. So, be honest. If one will lie to you they will steal from you and vice versa.


Then there are the times when there are no expectations, both are at ease and it feels like you are catching up with a long lost friend, bit in fact you've simply made a nee one. Those are the best times.


This is the approach I take - be guarded to an extent, no expectations, put the other at ease. Nothing will forced or go beyond the boundaries without permission. I personally, have neveret a stranger, (so to speak, lol), I make myself at home wherever I am and find humor can break the ice. And I show interest, ask questions to engage the other party and put them at ease.

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