BDSM is about dropping the pretenses. I want you completely exposed.
You're into what you're into, I am into what I am into. We don't have to be in the same things.
Make her laugh then make her moan.
Be gentle when needed, be rough when wanted.
Make her feel safe.
Admire the lady, spoil the little, spank, fuck the sl*t.
Drink water, eat well, have nasty s*x, mind your business.