Hello everyone! It's just Twisted Topaz, here with some more suggestions. This one is for submissives.
Red Flags I would watch for with profiles.
1. They only talk about controlling or using you. This is a porn version of a BDSM relationship. Healthy ones are built on connections, communication, and trust.
2. They have an all-or-nothing ask. Be wary of my-way-or-the-highway mentalities.
3. All they do is talk about how Alpha they are, but alpha means they think they are the best. It rarely means the training, work, and self-discipline needed for safe play.
4. They have red flags in their photos. I have seen a few for me—such and symbols of hate and discrimination.
5. They have a list of perfections they expect, with no sign of self-care. If they will not do what they expect of you, what other unbalanced expectations will they have for you?
Notice I did not say age or height. I finished training initially at 19. Stature and other things also do not make a dominant. It is 90% based on their emotional intelligence and educated capabilities.
6-foot tall, ex-body builder, experienced, looking for submissives of many types
