During one of my encounter I asked my swinging partner that what they actually look into Man for swinging and the pure answer came out of her mouth, I am posting them here as it is.
Women are not the sex objects, they are just like men, want love and affection, want support, cooperation, trust from men.
So you should not look towards them just for sex.
Sex is the need of everyone.
Like men, women too need sex.
All the women do not have a satisfied sex life but it doesn't mean that they will accept any men for sex. They always want to maintain their dignity.
Many women do have a high sex drive and even after getting a good dose of sex from their husbands, they need more sex.
There are many factors involved with the women, like they never want the undue publicity as far as sex is concerned.
In India sex is still considered as a taboo and no one ever wants to discuss about it openly, no one, especially the women never want to discuss about their affairs or extra marital affairs with anyone.
Though some people have really become liberal as far sex is concerned. Many couples have started swapping, many try threesome or foursome and many people have started exploring beyond their marriage.
As far as convincing a woman for sex is concerned, you must try to look inside yourself first and try to find out if it is necessary to destroy a well settled home only to finish your lust?
Of course if you find a woman who needs sex from you, then you may go ahead but please always keep to maintain the dignity of that woman.
If a woman requires sex from you, you can have it but please do not spoil anyone's home.
I hope you got my point.
Thanks for reading. I hope that will help people to understand what woman normally look for.
I'm 29 years old, living in the Thane region. I'm interested in meeting a couple aged between 18 and 49.