Just Some Answers To Popular Questions

Just because this is not my first site, and I have been in and out of the online dating scene since I was 18. I know the kinds of questions I will see tomorrow when I can read the 100+ emails sitting there.

First off, Polyamorous means slightly different to each person who is this way. For me, it simply means many loves. I do form emotional attachments, enjoy affection, and more with the right partners. I am looking for a long-term boyfriend/submissive playmate. In an ideal world, I would find another mate and partner. I am married, yes he knows, he is not bi, but if you ask nicely, maybe you can watch. I am blessed in a few ways at home. He is a stag that could give most bulls a run for their money.

Demisexual means I do not like nor want one-night stands. I like the tease and dance of getting to know someone and every one of your buttons. Even if it is for a wild weekend or a long-term relationship, I am all there when I am there. I want to be your fantasies for life, just because that one thing I did just right, and it drove you wild.

Sapiosexual, to me, means I have a soft spot for those some call geeks or nerds. But really, it is. I like people who have a thing they know well. I have talked astrophysics, quantum physics, engineering to D&D or gaming for hours. Plus music, art, working on cars, and a hundred other topics. The mind is a beautiful thing to listen to with the right person.

I find it incredible when dominant men say they want to switch to be with me, but it has never worked out. I mentor them but rarely getting along with them for too long. So not interested. Every relationship needs some give. Two Alphas in a room spend more time butting heads than making love after a bit.

I have twenty tattoos, depending on how you count them. My hair is always in a mohawk. It is longer and usually worn in a few kinds of a topknot or ponytail now. I get lazy on the sides sometimes and went with my natural graying color all over. I am a 38 DD-DDD, who likes to be clean shaved, and more. I do need an updated set of pics, any volunteers?

I am 6 foot, and way back in my best ages ago, I benched 175, leg pressed up to 750, and still can walk miles with 50 pounds on my back. I am not a little girl. I am a grown Amazon raised by a blackbelt and golden glove. Not worried about much. I keep first meets public, though, just because I will say a few old fans became stalkers, and I am in no mood for another now.

If I can answer anything else, feel free to ask.

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