Getting Laid or how I do it

On another site I see blogs by guys saying they are horny and want to fuck. They leave their phone number or ask girls to contact them.

I would guess they do not get replies. It is like the old pick up line: "Nice shoes. Wanna fuck?"

On the other hand I have talked to women who on a given night will go to a bar and see someone and on the spur of the moment decide to connect with the guy and decide they will go home with them. Several of the women had just had a fight or break up with BF or were in some way in a mood to punish their bf.

I have talked to females that have told me that, but have never hooked up with one of that "special" night. So I assume it true, but cannot verify it. It does make sense.

I prefer to take it slower. I like to meet for coffee or a glass of wine or even lunch. No expectation other than getting to know the other person and then deciding whether to take it further. Sometimes it takes multiple meetings before moving forward to something intimate. More often than not it turns out to be just the coffee or glass of wine and ends with "Nice to have met you. Best of everything to you. Good bye." but with no expectation of anything going forward, there is no real disappointment if it does not move forward. If, by chance, it does go forward, it feels good.

It is a much better approach in my opinion than putting out a post saying "I need to fuck." Would you agree?

What do you do for connecting with someone?

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