There seems to be a lot of people who are new to swinging on here? Three years ago that was me too. I turned 40 & thought "why not"? My hubby had played in a previous life,so it wasn't new to him. But I had always maintained that 'swinging' was something he had done with 'Her'! He never asked or cajolled,it was my awakening alone.
Our first venture was a house party venue in Herts & it was a disaster,with mainly horrid people & boys outnumbering girls 5 to 1 & literally hassling to be the first to have a grope! It soured my experience & we left early.
We then went to a naturist place in Kent & that was a whole lot better,BUT you had no cover,as it were, total disrobe & any & all body failings exposed! But it was braved & was a success,my cherry was popped!
Now....? Well it has shown me that newbie or experienced being naked right off is a great leveller for all? It also means for a gal who likes to get to the action, everything on offer is quickly accessable to my tongue & mouth etc no pulling clothes aside! Yes we all like a fancy wrapping on a pressie but are we not just after the prize? And I find that if a present is fancy wrapped it can leave the actual prize wanting?
Newbies advice....get naked,suck it & see. If you don't like it 100% then don't do it again & certainly never ever do it for your partners sake. You will resent them for it in all probability?
The image was myself on first party night!
TnGx.
