THE CHAMELEONS A BIG PROBLEM
As you all can see in our profile, we are new to "The Adult Hub" and beginners in this swinger or threesome.
In this short time, I noticed that in the Hub have many “CHAMELEONS” which generated much mistrust and make it very difficult relations with other.
I think it's great that each look at Hub what he want.
Some seek women, other seek men, other seek couples only,
surely some are only hunters of photos or videos,
some will just pretend chat, others will aim to do exhibitionism,
OK!
That everyone does what he want, but do not lie, they should clearly say what they want.
The big problem is the "CHAMELEONS” which masquerade as what they are not and lie to try to force others to do something they do not want. Give you some examples to illustrate this:
Those who are presented as couple but really are men, they put fake photos of alleged wives and even themselves.
Those who are presented as couple and then, at the last moment, saying that his wife is traveling but he would be happy to meet us.
Those who put old photos that appears to look better than they actually have today.
Those presented as couples and really are men trying to get private photos.
I think the "chameleons" rarely achieve their goal; early or late they are exposed and rejected. The problem is that they make you waste your time and generate a sense of insecurity and mistrust that affects when we are trying to establish a relationship with the "authentic".
I would like to have comments from all of you, especially the "authentic" and those with experience. My interpretation is true or am I wrong? How can we detect the "chameleons" and defend against them?
Thank you very much for reading the blog and, if you have some time, I hope your comments.
Warm regards,
ParejaAmistosa
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9:23 pm Monday, 8th April, 2013
I think this whole problem could be in part solved by the site , by allowing members to be classified into certain categories . |
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12:06 am Tuesday, 9th April, 2013
Problem ? If every one was put into categories then they would be telling the truth ? Pic hunters, time wasters, wife liers, cheaters, time waster, sensible cpl, honest single males, were would it stop. Never I have to agree with parejaamistoa there will always be chameleons but unfortunate it's the real honest people who are on this site for sex suffer, cause let be truthfully here were not on it to make friends if you do it's a plus but this site is what it's called a swinging site. We want sex not itch my fronds but with strangers and it's. Shame you do have chameleons on here because it's making life hard for the honest people xxx |
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11:28 am Tuesday, 9th April, 2013
Mr pickles 100% agree, just wrote a comment on mr greystoke about friends ? Wired and strange. The site is a frigging sex site lol. I wonder how many people would go onto a site if it was called face.sex.goblins and let every one no what they got upto !!! Not us lol x |
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12:04 pm Tuesday, 9th April, 2013
Any comments seem to justify the "chameleons" as necessary for the existence of free sex, fun and curiosity. |
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3:23 pm Tuesday, 9th April, 2013
#Tescos now that would be a first img src="imagesadultemoticons002.gif" |
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8:44 am Wednesday, 10th April, 2013
bbwlicious, your comment re pay to cam etc would then make it a money making site, and then the con artists would be interested in taking our money, I have joined sites who bombard me with likes and winks etc of people who want to meet, up to 12 a day sometimes, but as soon as payment is made they vanish, on one of these sites I started checking and the same lady’s profile and photo was sent to me from 5 different countries with different names? There were supposed to be hundreds of ladies within 50 miles of me who wanted to meet but on checking people after I had paid out to join site looked at data base of people within 200 miles found there were only 24 all of whom were all men!. |
