While many here want to be dominated by others or to dominate others, the fact that I often find is the lack of communication. Causes issues and trouble. Many times both want to share the same but fail to express their thoughts and ideas. Those starting in this lifestyle often can be misleading or misguided in their journey, leading to them being afraid to try again with the correct partner. When I started out I thought there were no others into this and I might be strange. I didn't open up in my relationships and suffered for it. I was unhappy and wanted something I wouldn't express with my partner at the time. As I grew and learned more I learned that it not a one sided relationship. A dom needs a sub and a sub needs a dom. Just as in any couple they must open and expert that. I found my sub for the short time she was with me. I began to try and teach bit was still afraid of doing the wrong thing. We had to sit and openly talk with the understanding to not hurt the other with our thoughts or ideas but to find out what the other truly wanted.I close with this thought open yourself and communicate.
