Honesty - Draft Saturday, June 12, 2021 4:34 PM

I want to highlight this topic because it's ruined one of the best, actually, the best sexual relationships I've ever been in. Or should I say I ruined it?


I was in a serious relationship for over two years. She was perfect, sexy, and committed to me. But in my mind I was Non-Monogamous. I got hooked up with an amazing secondary woman with a craziest of sex drives. From the beginning she was straight forward with me and let me know she was Poly. She, at the time was with another woman who knew she was Poly. I was quite alright with it because I felt I was also Poly, and I let her know that I was also currently in a relationship. But when I informed her of this, I left one important piece of information out. I'll get to that shortly...


Now, you have to understand, this girl was a freak in the sheets!! She would booty-call me at least every other day. I would shoot over to her house and we'd have sex like no other. She had an all time record with me of 19 orgasms in our first session! Of course every time we did it I would wait for her to be done and or worn out before I'd finish with some of the most intense orgasms ever. She really knew how to work her body just right. She could really thrive. I have to say, I've NEVER had a FWB like her...EVER!


Now to that part I left out...


After about 3 months of THE most amazing sex I've ever had, she invited me on a weekend getaway. It was probably the most amazing weekend road trip I've ever been on. The constant anywhere, everywhere sex was as amazing as always, but then throw in some mind blowing road-head along the way as well.. MMMMmmm!!! I can barely even begin to describe this amazing woman. On the Sunday morning headed home, we stopped for breakfast before hitting the road for the 9 hour drive. During breakfast we had conversations about sex and how to enhance what we had. She began to express her desire to have a threesome. We expanded on that topic and I brought up the idea of having my primary as our third. She was down for that, especially after seeing pictures and hearing what she was like. This opened the flood gates and questions poured in. She began asking more personal questions about my primary. The one question she asked that killed everything for me was this: "Does she know you're on this trip with me?" I replied, "No she doesn't". That reply was the smoking gun. It of course sparked more questions. This ultimately marked the tragic end of the most amazing sexual relationship I've ever had. Might I also mention the uncomfortable 9 hour drive home. By not telling her in the beginning that I was hiding her from my primary, it put her in the position of being a "home wrecker" and feeling like "the other woman" in her mind. At that moment, I instantly became the biggest asshole on the planet. That was completely unfair to her. It was also completely unfair for me to cheat on my primary by not being honest and explaining to her that I was Poly. And, also seeing someone else at the same time without her knowledge, or approval.


So friends, the moral of the story here is, be honest with her/him. If you're not into having an exclusive relationship, tell them in the beginning. This could have saved both of these relationships. Because ultimately, it began the spiral down and out of my primary relationship. Both were lost. In the end I've learned a valuable lesson. I hope after reading this, you will have as well.


Until next time... Happy Humping!!
-GA

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